both scythe and scalpel,
cutting away diseased and dead bits
to make room for healing and growth.
My no is a sign
showing where respect ends
and disrespect starts, saying,
"Cross at your own risk."
My no is a test
designed to offend only those
who think anything less than
my complete and uncomplaining compliance
challenges their self-worth.
My no is not the reason
this bridge is burning.
You brought the matches and the gasoline
only after I said, "Stop."
Song Choice: Bad Blood by Taylor Swift
I'd like to say I was surprised his response was to play the victim and end the friendship, but I long suspected I was only valued for what I could do. There is however a wonderful sense of relief I'm relishing. As I said, this happened on my birthday. And I was with family and friends who affirmed what good relationships look like (LOL, I owe a few of them a call back).
As for the boundary breaker, I wish him well and hope he finds enough emotional maturity to honestly deal with why so many of his relationships go south. But he's not my problem anymore. Oh well, more cake for those I care about and those who care about me.
