to teach stiffened trees about
bending in the rain
and loving the way
water collects on new leaves
to refract the sunlight after a
storm.
The
Liner Notes for this Groove:
It all started with a burst of
caffeine. I know I asked my mother-law-for decaf. She swears she got me decaf.
But about 16 years ago I knew a few things after I finished that coffee. A.)
That was probably not decaf and B.) the expected jitters from said cup of
coffee felt a lot more intense around my abdominal region, so even though it
was a couple of weeks early I was fairly sure labor had started.
By dawn the next morning I was
looking at my new-born kiddo, Rose. I suppose given her entrance into this
world it shouldn’t surprise me that she’s become something of a caffeine enthusiast.
So is she a coffee drinker like her dad or a tea drinker like her mom? I think
Rose would most likely relate to the quote by Abraham Lincoln, “If this is
coffee, please bring me tea; but if this is tea please bring me some coffee.”
She cheerfully partakes of either as the whim takes her (she had one of each on
the last day of being fifteen) because she sees no reason to place limits on
enjoying things that make her happy.
As she’s making the transition from
kid to very interesting young lady, she is vocal about expressing who she is,
from her vivid and unabashedly geek chic clothes to her retro taste in music
(on vinyl, if you please). And her joy is infectious. I wish I had felt
confident enough to release my inner geek to run free in a frenzy of pixie-stix
fueled glory. But seeing her happily embracing her quirkiness is the next best
thing. Being her mom has taught me a lot about the magic that can happen when
you are fully and authentically yourself, both as a writer and as a person.
I got
a small print of this painting, AmanitaTea,
when I ordered a larger one from Art by Lady Viktoria,
and something about it just struck me as so Rose-like, I had to use it here.
So dear Groovers, what’s your
preferred method of caffeine delivery? Or do you want to talk about a time when
being authentically yourself made things interesting? Make your thoughts known
about these questions or just catch me up on your week in the comments section.
As always, you can drop a link to your cyber home if you want to elaborate on
any comments you’ve left here.
Song
Choice: The theme song from one of our favorite shows to watch together, One Day at a Time
I adore this poem... Yes, indeed.. we can all learn from the fresh new shoot, about being green and welcoming the rain.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad you enjoyed it
DeleteThis warmed my heart so much, dearest Rommy!❤️ Rose sounds like a wonderful young lady and gosh I just might fly all the way down there to see her after this post!
ReplyDeleteI am a coffee drinker but sometimes like to have tea as well!❤️
She'd probably love that! She likes hearing about the friends I have on line.
DeleteTea- as many times a day as possible. No teabags- brewed on the stove top with milk and sugar!!!
ReplyDeleteOoh yes! Some teas just taste better prepared that way.
DeleteI enjoy both tea and coffee. Guess I'm bi!
ReplyDeleteDon't tell anyone, but while I am typically a tea drinker, if the time is right and that coffee is looking inviting, I have been known to succumb to its charms.
DeleteExcellent poem. I did not read all the other stuff, just the poem. I like the water collecting on leaves.
ReplyDeleteIt is a lovely image
DeleteYes, yes, tea with milk and cardamom (at times with ginger and a whole range of spices) brewed on the stove top is the best thing in the world. I really can not function without Chai! I really enjoyed your take on what it means to be authentic while embracing all the quirkiness in a delightful display of one's personality.
ReplyDeleteAlso, that poem is such a gem — those small sprouts have a wonderful lesson to teach to all of us. :-)
Authentic chai is just amazing! I love it especially on chilly winter days (or days when sure, the calender says it's spring, but no one thought to inform the sun).
DeleteThanks for the kind words :)
I love this poem, Rommy, especially:
ReplyDelete'water collects on new leaves
to refract the sunlight after a storm'.
Thanks Kim. I'm fond of that bit too.
DeleteOh, I love watching green sprout. I am a stiffened tree eager to learn how to bend again. Oh, and yes my Twila series will one day become a book.
ReplyDeleteYaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaassssssssssssssssssss!!!!! Keep me posted. :)
Deletewater collects on new leaves
ReplyDeleteto refract the sunlight after a storm.
Nature certainly has a way to make everything work and all with its own ways. Very true Rommy!
Hank
Yes it does. We can learn a lot from it.
DeleteI love the poem starts by reminding us to value flexibility and the daring that comes with youth. And the ending? I couldn't agree more, wonderful things can come out of what at first might feel like a horror.
ReplyDeleteI'm smiling as I imagine the look on your face as you realized that the coffee probably wasn't decaf and that the wild gild was on her way. I bet she got a whiff of that coffee and couldn't resist the urge of joining the world that brewed it. She is a precious one, your Rose. And I suspect that she is barely starting to teach stiff trees how life is done.
Here is my bit for this week: https://magalysblog.blogspot.com/2019/03/some-battles-arent-worth-energy-they.html
LOL, I think that was a defining moment, getting her first hit of caffeine directly in her blood stream. :D I am delighted I get to learn from her.
DeleteI like them both but drink more coffee most of the time. I am a starbucks addict to venti white mocha's.
ReplyDeleteYour daughter sounds so cool and you described her so joyful. Love that artwork!
She's a very cool kid, though today she's a little short of joy on account of having a head cold.
DeleteRommy your brief and emphatic poem, together with your articulate post made me stop and ponder your question about authenticity.
ReplyDeleteI admire your young lady Rose for embracing her quirkiness. She sounds like a real fun (and smart) kid with her vivid and and unabashedly geek style and taste. I don’t doubt that as a mother and a writer, you haven’t learned and continue to learn, a lot from her strength of being authentic.
And to answer your question, unfortunately in my case authenticity nearly denied me what I love most because I didn’t know how to handle it. Anyway, here’s my link to read more about what I mean:
https://www.khayaronkainen.fi/in-solitude-i-breathe/
Yeah, I am embarrassed to admit that I've crossed over the line of being authentic to being an ass sometimes. And it's bugged me when I realized that "going there" really didn't solve any issues I supposed was interested in resolving.
DeleteLOL, my daughter is better at identifying that sort of thing than I am, so I look to her for that too.
Beautiful, Rommy.
ReplyDeleteI especially like the small sprouts bending in the rain.
DeleteI'm so glad you enjoyed it.
DeleteCheerful and graceful poem. :)
ReplyDeleteThanks C!
DeleteMy caffeine has to be delivered strong and quick... as an espresso so thick it's almost solid with just a splash of hot milk to sooth its bitterness (and never with sugar)
ReplyDeleteThe way a sapling bends for the wind while the tree will break is something that I think has been used to describe the strength of a geisha (the willow way)
That sounds intense! And oddly intriguing :D
DeleteI love that bit about the willow way.
Yes indeed, we can learn a lot from our children. For me an old tree, its my (Yanda) daughter's discipline and quiet drive. She gets the job done. And as for my (Khama) son, his critical near annoying eye. Keeness like that of a hawk
ReplyDeleteYou Rose sounds like a bountiful blessing
Thanks for dropping by my sumie Sunday today Rommy
Much🏵love
It sounds like you have wonderful blessings of your own. :) Glad you stopped by.
DeleteLove the poem - which, sets up the narrative - a wonderful little slice of life - so beautifully. I thought the way in which you wove some of your daughter's qualities into the narrative (thus pinning it so splendidly to the poem) was really well done. Though your posts are often, deliciously chock-a-block full, they are so well organized and constructed they have an organic flow that is very authentic and a pleasure to read.
ReplyDeleteAw! Thank you for the very high compliment Wendy. :)
DeleteBeautifully written. (In my opinion : )
ReplyDeleteZQ
Glad you enjoyed it
DeleteI love the lessons we can learn from 'young sprouts.'
ReplyDeleteYour poem sent me to thinking about my daughter, my grandkids. You treated me to some moments with smiles.
Happy to oblige :)
DeleteWhen my kids were growing up I loved exploring the woods and streams taking the dog with us to do all we could. I was able to be an adventurous boy again and they learned all about exploring even crawling through rainwater drains under rail tracks! This was well before iPhones and iPads!
ReplyDeleteThat sounds terrific! I loved going rambling with my kids in the local woods too.
DeleteAdore your poem, loved learning about Rose, and I like my coffee black and strong and first thing in the morning. (Tea? – never touch the stuff! Well, the occasional herbal.)
ReplyDeleteHerbal is mostly occassional for me too, usually in the evening when I don't want to stay up too late.
DeleteOut of the mouths of babes?
ReplyDeleteYes
DeleteThis is so wonderful, hi Rose and I love the art piece as well!
ReplyDeleteMe, I'm a tea drinker 100%. The only way I will drink coffee, is when it's a dessert, with sugar and whipping cream! LOL! Big Hugs!